Sunday, October 7, 2012
Unlearning the Myths That Bind Us
Unlearning the Myths That Bind Us
by: Linda Christensen
Quotes
"when we are reading children's books, we aren't just reading cute little stories, we are discovering the tools with which a young society is manipulated."
This quote makes such a strong statement and opens discussion for the rest of the reading. It imply's that every story a child see's or reads sits deeper in their minds and creates how they should be in the world. Girls should be pretty with a small hourglass figure so they can get the man of their dreams, step parents are seen as always mean, and that men are always at the top of the hierarchy of life. The whole text kind of surrounds around this one quote.
"Look, Ursula the sea witch is ugly and smart. Hey, she's kind of dark looking, The young pretty ones only want to hook their man; the old pretty ones are mean because they are losing their looks."
This goes on in almost every fairytale I have seen. The villain is always ugly looking or they are mean because they are losing their looks, and every girl is simply on earth just to find that one guy. I mean Ariel gives up her voice to become and human but to really find the prince, seems a bit much don't you think? These types of stereotypes and many more are shown in the text and how the students now see what the underlying message was.
" The Barbie syndrome starts as we begin a lifelong search for the perfect body. Crash diets, fat phobias, and an obsession with the materialistic become commonplace."
Anything you watch whether the pretty girl is always the one that most resembles a Barbie doll. Cinderella, Bell, Ariel, Pocahontas, Jasmine, and Snow white are all shaped like a Barbie. In our society that is the "Perfect" body and that any girl who does not look like them are not considered beautiful. It gets in your mind without even knowing it. Growing up watching how the men all swoon over these women make us think that is how we need to look in order to get the right attention. The relevance to the text would be anything of the woman characters in all of the movies, and tv shows.
Growing up as a young girl my sister and I grew up on all Disney movies. It was just the two of us so it was Barbie and baby doll heaven in my house! I totally fall into the category that one day i will have my happily ever after and it has probably ruined my sense of crappy boy acknowledgement ! I am a hopeless romantic and I definitely give some credit to all of those fairytale movies. I am now just accepting my body for what it is, all throughout high school and most of college I wish I could always look skinnier, or more fit, or had a bigger bottom. Now I am starting to get more comfortable with who I am and taking me as ME and not caring what others think. I am who I am and will continue to try to love myself more everyday regardless of what those fairytales showed while growing up!
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I agree with your points. According to these movies the female characters have to be beautiful and have an hour-glass figure to fall in love and live happily ever after. They depict these things in the wrong way you don't have to look like that to live happily ever after. I do agree with the step parents being depicted as mean though from my experiences haha JK :)
ReplyDeleteI feel like there are a lot of messages that children might overlook in the media, but the sense of what is beautiful is, is a "lesson" that no girl could overlook. I also grew up watching the Disney movies and playing with Barbies, and whenever I went to school I noticed the girls who looked like Barbies, and that I wasn't one of them. I have grown to accept myself completely, but there are a lot of girls who are stuck in the "perfect" rut. Everyone knows that one "mean girls" clique, where the girls wear everything tight and plenty of makeup just to look perfect. For me, that was a translation of the beauty that the Disney movies and other popular media had imprinted on these girls from a young age.
ReplyDeleteInteresting post. I also wrote about fairytale/Disney villains. They are illustrated as "ugly" or "ugly" as according to SCWAAMP. Who's to say the villains are ugly? -- Those who are manipulated by SCWAAMP. It is really interesting and very honest of you to share how you were influenced by these movies but it's even cooler how you've been able to acknowledge your own beauty.
ReplyDeleteI love this! I completely agree with everything you said, especially because I grew up watching princess movies and for a while i believed in those fairy tale lives but I got over it as I got older because I realized I didn't look like these princesses. For sometime I didn't like that, but today I love it! It's better to stand out, and love yourself for it!
ReplyDeletehey kaela!
ReplyDeletei love your post!
i was into the same things when i was a little girl!
ill always be a sucker for sappy movies too!
guilty lol :)